Heal Your Inner Child – Mend Your Relationships With Mumbai Based Therapist Ms. Manisha Agarwal

The inner child is the part of the soul a “little you” with sympathetic emotions, it is an emotional side with innocence and primary needs. Being connected to the inner child is the key to a happy life. When we are connected to our inner child, we feel excited, invigorated, and inspired by life. When we are disconnected, we feel lethargic, bored, unhappy, and empty. Wounded traumas or neglect during childhood have an adverse effect on us as a grown-up adult. The inner child issue is developed gradually, during the child’s development stage, strategized in the subconscious, and implemented at a later stage.
Factors like abandoned, abused, rejected, neglected, etc are responsible for a wounded inner child. This backfires a child’s self-confidence and approach towards the world. An extreme way of expressing is adopted resulting in loss of natural charm and muscularity. This often leads to complicated internal feelings where adults have their secret lives outside their committed union.
An inner child holds all painful experiences suffered by an individual. Adult acts behaviourally- can have a tendency of having an affair, staying out of the house for long hours, sneaking out of the house, and reacting strongly to something. This is exactly the time to stop, step back, and ask, “Can I afford to act on this feeling?” Most probably imagination is running wild, or triggered, feeling of disrespected, angry, scared, or depressed. These are all normal, human states governed by our emotional brain which dominates our functional adult self, making thinking, caring, and considered judgment impossible.
Adults are filled with judgment, rage, harshness, bitterness, coldness, and distance in their behaviour creating an ugly relation.
Some behavioural patterns which are responsible for messing up relationships;
– Suspicion, doubt, insecurity, jealousy, and fear of rejection and abandonment
– Attacking our partner verbally, and perhaps physically, from our wounded place without really knowing why we do it or being able to stop ourselves
– Anger and resentment when our needs aren’t met by our partner; and of setting up arguments with them to create distance
– The expectation of our partner’s ability to mind read and be able to guess what we need without our having to ask for it
– Repeated squabbling about the same issues – because the underlying reason from the past hasn’t been exposed and cleared up
– Need to be ‘in the right’ and take the higher ground – ignoring or devaluing our partner’s perspective and reasons
– Testing our partner’s loyalty – with games, manipulations, and emotional blackmail
– Playing the caretaker, victim, or martyr and setting up a power imbalance in the relationship
– Blaming, shaming and criticizing – becoming a bully and making our partner the victim
– Regressive childlike behaviour and faked incompetence… like, I can’t do it…you have to do it for me’
– Overwhelm, panic and distress at things that other adults in a relationship seem able to easily cope with, such as changes to plans, partner’s unavailability due to work etc.
– Expecting to get our own way most, if not all, of the time – and that our partner can and will ‘fix’ everything for us.
– Impatience, drama, tantrum-throwing, and sulking – all designed (subconsciously) to get our demands met.
– Sending out mixed messages, creating confusion, and distorting what’s been said.
– Fake happiness and wearing a mask of compliance.
– Neglecting our own feelings and needs and putting our partner on a pedestal – and making their needs more important than our own.
– Secret-keeping and evasiveness – the inner child is hiding away or playing games to elicit curiosity and concern from their partner.
– Obsession with being in a relationship – as if their identity, or even their life, depended upon it
– Resentment of the partner’s other interests, hobbies, friends or family members who take up their time.
– The pressure to have sex – as if this were ‘proof’ of love. Sex is used as a substitute for love and intimate affection.
– Emotional distance or creating inner loneliness. Creating a partnership of convenience and friendship with little or no depth or personal sharing
– Over-spending and maybe getting into debt; gambling or other dependencies or addictions – which are used to temporarily feel better, but which damage the foundations of the relationship.

Consequently, to obtain and maintain a healthy fruitful marriage or relationship, couples must develop patience, understanding, and unconditional love.
Therapists can help you to enjoy a happy relationship and avoid the consequences. If you feel disconnected in your marriage or relationship and want to avoid parting ways, I can help you with my resources to overcome the challenge and live a happy and peaceful life.

Manisha Agrawal
Hypnotherapy / Age & Past Life Regression / Family Constellation / Entity Releasement / Tarot Counselling / Angel Card Reading / Cartomancy / Serenity Surrender / Numerology / Theta Healing / Vaastu
Phone: +91 9372576537 / 9867148399
Email: manishatarrot@gmail.com
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